Big House

Date: 11/13/2023

I have a big house with many bedrooms upstairs and a spacious living, dining room downstairs. I have a new loveseat and we’re moving furniture around and removing some chairs to be stored for extra seating. A bunch of people are helping me. I tell someone that I don’t know why we’re selling the house. In the evening, a bunch of people are sleeping on the floor despite all the bedrooms. Eileen is trying to tell me something she’s upset about, but I can’t hear her because she’s whispering to avoid disturbing people. I want her to come upstairs, but she doesn’t want to, so I stay there. An older gay guy comes in. He wants some water. I try to tell him where the bottled water is without waking people up, gesturing and whispering. He doesn’t get it so I get up to show him. He’s stroking my skin, saying he’s forgotten how soft a woman’s skin is. Another man says he never forgets how soft women’s skin is. I feel a little annoyed at him touching me. An internal brick wall starts to crumble from the top. About half of it falls brick by brick because the mortar is worn out. The lower half seems solid somehow. I think about what a big mess it is to clean up.

AI generated interpretation The dream starts with a big house, which represents your sense of self and personal life. The many bedrooms upstairs and spacious living and dining rooms downstairs suggest that you have an abundance of potential and opportunities in your life. The new loveseat and moving furniture around may symbolize a desire for change and rearranging certain aspects of your life. The decision to remove some chairs and store them for extra seating could suggest a need to let go of old ways of thinking or emotional baggage in order to create more space for new experiences or relationships. The fact that you don't know why you're selling the house indicates a sense of uncertainty or confusion about a major decision or direction in your life. The second part of the dream involves people sleeping on the floor despite the availability of bedrooms. This may represent your frustration or confusion regarding people not utilizing the resources or opportunities available to them. Eileen whispering to you suggests that there is something she wants to express or share with you, but she feels hesitant or afraid of disturbing others. This could symbolize an unresolved relationship or communication issue in your waking life. The arrival of an older gay man who wants water represents a presence that is seeking nourishment or emotional support from you. Your efforts to communicate without waking others may indicate a desire to provide assistance or comfort without causing disruptions. The man's comment about forgetting how soft a woman's skin is and the annoyance you feel could suggest a boundary violation or intrusion in your personal space. There may be someone or something in your life that is encroaching upon your boundaries or making you feel uncomfortable. The crumbling brick wall is a significant symbol in the dream. The top half of the wall falling brick by brick suggests that old structures or beliefs that once provided stability in your life are beginning to break down or lose their effectiveness. The fact that the lower half of the wall remains solid may signify that there are still some foundational aspects of your life that feel secure, even amidst the changes or challenges. The mess that you think about cleaning up indicates a recognition of the effort or work that will be required to address these changes or navigate through this transition period. Overall, this dream suggests that you are in a state of transformation and reevaluation in your personal life. There may be a need to let go of old patterns or beliefs, set and enforce healthy boundaries, and address unresolved issues or emotions in order to create a more stable and fulfilling future.