Being sl*t-shamed at a party

Date: 6/12/2022

I had a dream that I showed up to a party that i was invited to. I was the first person there. It was very fancy and luxurious. It was built kind of like a castle on the outside with a very pretty lawn and garden in front. And there was a part of the castle off to the side that was built like a club, or like a venue for events and looked more modern. It was daylight when I arrived. And the host and her close friend were there sitting at a tiny table already drinking and chatting. As I was about to speak and spark conversation with the host, the hosts friend said, "You're wearing too revealing of clothes. It doesn't look good and I don't appreciate it because my husband will be here." I said, "what?!" In disbelief as I stepped closer to her and examined what she was wearing. As it was supposed to be a casual party that started during the day I wore denim shorts and a white crop top, but I still looked put together. She was wearing a bandeau top and a high-waisted skirt and surely showing more skin than I. Before she could repeat herself I said, "well hun it looks like you're wearing less than I am, so you're just insecure af and you need to shut the hell up." I immediately went back outside and was about to call an uber to take me home. I didn't come to the party for drama. I also thought to myself, wow I finally spoke up for myself, usually when I'm confronted like that, I freeze up. I went back inside to do something, I'm assuming talk to the host. And as I went back outside she was there, sobbing hysterically and talking to another friend that showed up. By this time a lot of people have showed up and it started to get dark. I pulled out my phone and started recording as I passed by her, she said something else mean that I don't remember. And as I got back outside, there was a swarm of cops. Two female officers approached me and asked me about the situation. One of the officers took my phone whilst she went and talked to the mean girl. I knew once I handed my phone over that things were going to be deleted. But I just told my story and tried to keep things simple and sweet. I was given back my phone and the officers left. Things were definitely deleted, even more than my proof, things that were personal. I asked someone if that was legal and they told me no. They asked me why. I explained to them the situation and they said oh that girl? The host and her husband are in a relationship w her but shes half their age. I came to the conclusion that this girl and the couple was in kahoots w the police.

AI generated interpretation Based on your dream, it is possible that you may be feeling judged or criticized by others in your life. The party setting represents a social gathering that may symbolize situations in your waking life where you are surrounded by others and expected to fit in or conform to social expectations. The idea of being called out and shamed for your clothing may indicate that you feel like your style or outward appearance is becoming a source of negative attention or judgement. This can be a common fear for many people, particularly those who feel like they don't fit in with certain social groups or feel like they are being singled out and criticized for their choices. Your reaction to the criticism in the dream shows that you are capable of standing up for yourself and confronting those who would try to shame you. This may indicate that you are becoming more confident in your ability to speak your mind and assert yourself in situations where you might otherwise feel uncomfortable or insecure. The involvement of the police in the dream may also indicate feelings of mistrust or paranoia, as well as a sense of powerlessness in the face of authority figures. You may be feeling like your personal life or private information is being scrutinized or even violated by others with more power or influence. Overall, this dream suggests that you may be dealing with feelings of insecurity and judgement in your waking life, but that you have the strength and ability to confront these feelings head-on and assert your own sense of self and individuality.