Another step child

Date: 2/23/2021

My husband’s ex, who he shares one child with, got pregnant and it was need up being his. Of course I was upset; but he didn’t cheat, we were on a break and I decided to be okay with it. He didn’t have much to do with the pregnancy at all since his ex has a boyfriend who’s there for her. She goes into labour and everything’s fine but then I start realizing like this means we’re gonna have to help raise another one of her kids. She’s a nightmare to deal with; the definition of narcissistic personality disorder. So naturally I don’t fucking want to. I say to my husband “maybe you can just let Josh (her boyfriend) have him.” And at first my husband is like “he wouldn’t take him” But I say “Well you’re still the dad, but you could just say that they can raise him and just step back.” And I woke up around there. I don’t remember the whole convo but I was convincing him to not be involved in the baby’s life since she has a boyfriend who could just act as the father and I didn’t want to deal with her for another 18 years since his first child is 10 almost 11 and I’ve been dealing with her since he was 4 and it is NOT easy. Thank god it was just a dream. I think it would actually be the end of our marriage.