Seeing my Ex in Public and Yelling at Him

Date: 4/3/2021

Me and my friend Kat were walking on Campbell Ave in West Haven, CT when my ex boyfriend Mike skateboarded by us. He had sunglasses on and sandals. I was stunned. Kat said “That looked a lot like Mike.” I said, “That was Mike.” She looked like she doubted it so I said “One billion percent. That WAS him.” We were both very confused and off-put by this Mike sighting. Another day, she picks me up from my current boyfriend’s house. He wasn’t home, it was just me, so when I left the house it was empty. After a while I realized I forgot to lock the door. We were out walking on the street again, there were a lot of people. I saw Mike again and he was approaching us. When he got close he said, “So after everything we had you just decided to block me?” I felt everyone nearby turn to look at me and judge me as if I was the bad person. “If you wanna have this discussion, then we fucking will,” I said, pulling him aside a bit until we were inside a very tiny crowded cafe. So I started yelling at him in front of everyone. “You can’t keep doing this. You keep coming back saying you missed me and love me and want to be with me, and then change back to being cold and wanting nothing to do with me. And this has been going on for YEARS now. It makes no sense!!! And you’re trying to do it again? Even though last time I saw you you tried to pressure me into sex and then when I called you out you lied to my FACE and then YOU blocked ME???” Everyone around us was staring at us but I was glad. I wanted this to be a scene. “Oh my God...... it’s no fucking coincidence that I keep seeing you... you were on the street where I used to work!!! You were there on purpose looking for me!!! That was no coincidence!!!” I realized.