Crazy, overwhelming dream

Date: 1/20/2019

I just remember I was going to get together with my friend but it turned into this unbelievably complicated thing. He got all these people involved who weren't even from around to come get me. I was in this group text with all these people that just kept appearing in the chat and I was like "wtf is going on?" My friend wasn't even a part of this and I was so confused. This guy who was like the guy who was going to come and get me had gotten a hold of my personal records like my ID, which was my drivers license in the dream but I don't have a drivers license irl. He said it indicated something about me that I can't remember what he said. This was after he evidently told me "I'm here." And I was so confused like, he was here at my house? We didn't even come up with a plan for when he was coming or that he was coming at all. It was like my friend just came up with a plan that involved me without consulting me and then removing himself from involvement and I was so confused and I started getting anxiety. He had texted me at like 6:39. This was lost in all these messages from random people in the group text and it was almost 7, like 10 of 7. I ignored him and didn't send any texts. I noticed there was a girl who has the same name as my cousin and I saw she had a picture and like a profile. She had said something regarding respiratory health or something and I looked on her profile and I swore she looked like my cousin but I realized it wasn't her after I saw that she worked in the medical field and my cousin works in insurance as an actuary. She still looked like her though but not really after I made that realization. I was then suddenly in this dark, cluttered place with this girl and she was freaking out because there was this giant spider that apparently was like this super force, pinning her against the wall and she said it was so scary and she saw its face and it was terrifying and I was freaking out because I began to feel like I was the one experiencing it. I didn't actually see her experience this, it was more like I was just immersed into the experience as she described it. It was terrifying and I felt helpless but that was soon over and the spider disappeared. She started freaking out still though, saying something was going to happen to her at 9:00 and we had to hurry. I found out she had the same name as me. I looked at the clock and saw it was almost 8-7:53. Why didn't I go lucid after I spent so much time looking at the time? 😩 She said it was her birthday and everyone was going to wish her a happy birthday. Apparently that freaked her out for some reason. Anyway, it was clearly nighttime and it was a rainy night but once we got outside, which she dragged me out as I was trying to get my shoes on and tie them, how I managed while she did that is beyond me and should have been red flag #2 that I was dreaming ugh! But once we got outside I noticed it was sunny out. I was so confused. We were out on this pavement and all these people were lined up with these pans of food that were for the girl and they all said "merry Christmas" to her as we passed, holding out their dishes to her in offering. Eventually they started to say "happy birthday" instead and I started to feel jealous that she was getting all this attention and I wanted to be wished a happy birthday too and be offered food. I noticed they did look right at me but they didn't acknowledge me. That's all I remember.