HELP (need tips)

Date: 7/1/2016

I'm 17 years old and have never had a lucid dream. I find extremely hard to lucid dream mainly because every time I do seem to realize I'm dreaming I try to control things and nothing works so I just get frustrated and everything goes black and I wake up. If anyone has tips on how to lucid dream or just wants to share their experiences and what works for them please tell me them I'll be glad to listen.