boyfriends kids

Date: 11/21/2025

so my boyfriend that i’ve been together with for 3 years that i’m deeply in love with brought a woman to my parents house with her 2 young toddlers a boy & a girl. He said “these are gonna be our kids!” (mind you in real life i have endometriosis & it would be very difficult to convince so we decided we’re just not gonna have any kids) im 25 & my boyfriend is 28 & this woman is in her mid-late 30s. i’m pretty confused at this point what’s going on but my boyfriend & I were about to leave to go to Costa Rica so I didn’t want to start an argument right before we left for this amazing trip. & the kids are adorable. We’re in the front yard hanging out & the woman is like “you’re gonna be their mom, i’m gonna move in with yall & be the grandma” & i’m like wtf?? so she’s like “i’ll stay in the extra bedroom & i won’t sleep in his bed & i’ll help you take care of his kids”. & my boyfriend seems really excited / happy with this dynamic although we’ve talked deeply on the subject & he said he did not want to have kids. So my mother comes home & we’re all in the front yard & my mom pulls me aside & says “what is going on, this is so weird & i don’t like it” & i said “me either im gonna talk to him about this” & my mom is like “no don’t you don’t wanna start a fight before the trip” & at this point idgaf. so my boyfriend sees me looking mad & he’s like “aw baby what’s wrong???” & i drag him into the house into a private room & start interrogating him. i said “ how tf are those your children???” & he’s like “because they are” & i’m like “tell me HOW” so then he start laughing & does like the finger motions of the pointer finger going into a hole & I start to lose it & i’m like “No i’m so fucking serious right now what the fuck are you talking about??” & he says “well in January we hooked up ,” before he could even finish i said “WHY? what the fuck why?” he starts laughing again & said “so I could brag” & that’s all i can remember because I woke up crying (but in the dream there were 2 kids so it obviously happened more than once & i was so disgusted)