Date: 2/27/2026
By wahblamy
The first part of this dream I remember is being with my mom, in a home, and we are talking about me. She brings it up to me that I got pregnant in grade 6 and gave birth to the baby and the baby was put up for adoption. I had forgotten about this but as she was telling me all the memories came back. She said I had met someone on the dating apps and we only met one time. I wondered how embarrassing it was for her that her daughter was pregnant and going to school. Remembering this, I felt surprised but quite neutral. I didn't miss the baby but was shocked that I had gone through that at such a young age. As I got home to my own apartment, my neighbor Dawn was in my place. I think I had let her use it for something and I wasn't weirded out that she was there - at first. I was in the process of moving and there were piles she could look through if she wanted anything. As I'm looking around I notice that she has moved some things and put her own art on the walls. I was really perturbed by this and confronted her. She thought after I left she could move in and I started to feel like she was already starting. I started to get mad. I'll just put a note here about the apartment. It was the top floor of a house and had very interesting shapes. It was decorated with a lot of natural items, like sticks and bones and tapestries. It was way more kitschy than my current decor but similar - it was almost tribal. So I am getting mad at Dawn and then a few more people are there in my place and are asserting their dominance to start living there. Just like in my past dreams a huge boundary is being crossed and I start to get angry. I kind of explode a little bit and I tell them I got bad news today and I don't need them disrespecting me. At this point my brother is there. Eventually I tell the intruders about my pregnancy and they actually heed that. Like I need to have some kind of victim story for them to feel bad enough for me to leave me alone. They leave reluctantly. One guy in particular is fighting with me the most. Saying that the apartment is shit anyways so why does it matter what happens to it etc. After I get them out, I start to assess the damage and on the kitchen floor someone has written Montreal Quebec in blue pen on the kitchen floor. I begin to correct what is out of place. There is one other strange scene where I am dating this black guy from Africa. He lives in a really nice apartment and is very particular about it being clean and has ways/orders that he does things in. We are dating but I can feel quite clearly that he has excellent boundaries, almost to the point where it is offensive to me lol. He is going to play a game and I can "come in and play if I want to". At one point his mother comes in and describes her son to me. We talk about this game, which is a board game I have to download an app for. I feel like I am taking too long and that they are judging me. This whole interaction feels like being at the rich kids' house as an early teen and you want to make a good impression. The next scene is rather rapid and completely seperate. There is a couple, a man and a woman, and it is obvious that he is cheating on her. He slept with two young girls connected through family friends. This is all in my mind's eye. I felt bad for her but then you see that she cheats on him too, and she is in the shower sending nude selfies on her phone. He comes in and hits her really hard. She is getting ready to go out with him but he tells her to stay home. This scene is unnerving. The end.