Ex Friend with Benefits, New Favorite Sport

Date: 5/1/2018

These are two parts of the same dream, but are pretty distinct, so... 1: I went over to a guy's house who used to be a friend with benefits. He wanted to have sex, but I told him I'm engaged these days, showed him my ring and told him I really just wanted to hang out as friends. He was friendly at first, but started getting moody and indignant when he realized we definitely weren't having sex. The charm and mystery he normally exuded gave way to a sort of banal drudgery as he skulked away to take a shower. At some point while he was getting dressed he announced that the was going to invite another woman over who would have sex with him. He did and she showed up and they went in his room, totally ignoring me. I was left on the couch with no ride, listening to them have sex in the other room. I called my fiance and asked him to come help me. He came over and was sitting on the couch with me when the ex FWB came out of the bedroom. The guy was pissed that I had my fiance in his house and proceeded to make threats to kick his ass and might have actually grabbed him. This made me so mad that I took his cell phone and smashed the screen on the corner of his coffee table a couple of times, cracking it a bunch. The scene jumped to the cops showing up while my fiance and I were outside with some of the other guy's things, planning to trash his yard with them or something. The cops let us go after we explained. 2: I had to hide from the guy after that, afraid he'd find me and hurt me. My sister Jenna went with me and we spent the night in a cheap hotel somewhere that slept two parties in one room. We had to share our room and bed with a group of black people who seemed to not trust white people. They were hyper awake and annoying and I was afraid they'd like us even less if we asked them to be quiet. We did though, and they eventually agreed to go to bed. Later though I heard a commotion outside our room and it sounded like people were preparing for some secret activity. I got intrigued, and woke everyone up and encouraged them to participate in whatever it was, even though I'd just convinced them to settle down. We went out, and I was introduced to a secret sport. Jenna and I were the only white people at first and I wondered if that was somehow bad, like if we were intruding somehow, but then I noticed a couple other white people and felt better. A huge group gathered at the top of some wide stairs that spiraled down several stories. Then someone yelled "Go." We raced down the stairs, intentionally playing leap frog over several people in the crowd at once to race to the bottom. Every time we jumped we'd land several steps down with such force that the stairs would crumble under our feet. There was a sort of primal release involved that was thrilling. I was among the winners several times and was hooked. Each time I did a race I told Jenna it would be the last, but then I'd do another. Finally I couldn't walk or move and knew I'd overdone it. I left worried that I'd take a long time to recover, only to want to find the secret stair race and do it again and again.

AI generated interpretation Overall, this dream suggests that you are going through a period of transition and growth in your personal relationships. The first part of the dream, with your ex-FWB, highlights your need to set boundaries and establish a sense of independence in your romantic relationships. The fact that he becomes moody and turns to someone else for sex suggests that he may have been using you solely for physical pleasure and is unable to handle rejection or change in the dynamic between you two. Your engagement to your fiancé represents a desire for stability and commitment. The destruction of the ex-FWB's property also suggests a need for retribution or vindication, as if you are standing up for yourself and not allowing others to push you around. However, it's important to note that this level of aggression may not be the healthiest way to handle conflict. The second part of the dream, with the secret sport, represents the joy and excitement that comes from trying new things and pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone. The fact that you were initially uncomfortable being one of the only white people there suggests a hesitation to embrace new or unfamiliar things, but once you participated, you found a sense of belonging and excitement. Overall, this dream suggests a need for healthy boundaries, a desire for commitment and stability, but also a willingness to explore new experiences and find joy in adventure and risk-taking.