My daughter’s birthday party

Date: 12/23/2018

I was throwing a birthday party for my daughter. It was at someone else’s house and in my dream it was somewhere I had been many times, but I don’t recognize it or remember whose house it was supposed to be. I think I had a dream about it once before perhaps. One of my guy friends told me he invited his new long distance relationship girlfriend over. I creeped her online, he told me she had a lot of tattoos but she only had a few basic ones lol. This is super out of character but I sent her a mean message? But I typoed in it and was super embarrassed. It made me realize how dumb it was in the first place that I was being so nasty. I apologized and she made a joke and forgave me. At one point she has at the party though and I caught her stealing food out of the hands of one of the children, a little boy at around three. She thought no one saw and was smirking and looked so proud of herself. I approached her and began scolding her, telling her she was acting like a small miserable child and that she was way too old for this type of behaviour. She looked like she was about to cry. I was in the kitchen preparing some cake and food. My cousin came in and was questioning me about what I’d been angry at the other girl for. They were being extremely loud about it and it was making me nervous and I kept trying to shush them. I did vent about what happened and said something like “when I see someone being a bully, I can’t help if. I just need to do something.” Which is sort of ironic considering I was the bully earlier in the dream. My cousin started telling me that one of the most traumatic things that ever happened to them was once they were a child someone stole food from them and they didn’t understand why. Someone was talking to me about a girl who I know. She is punk and very wild and loud and a recently recovered drug addict. They said “I feel like her and her daughter go so well together! They’re such an unlikely pair and I feel like she does such an amazing job as a mother.” I don’t disagree but in my dream all I replied with is “you only feel that way because you were never raised by someone like her.”