Major Fomo

Date: 1/17/2026

This dream is highly related to real life...I bought a ticket to go to a show and then offered to sell it because I'm feeling low on cash and don't feel I need to attend this one at all costs. I posted the ticket and someone named Tess said she wants it irl. here's the dream... In my dream I head over to my friends' place and everyone's there; all the buds that I hang out with regularly in real life. They are pre drinking for the show. I decide to go over to have a pre drink with them and also to give the ticket over to Tess. Tess arrives and she brings a bag of "offerings", it's like multiple half empty bags of crackers, some elastics, maybe a trinket etc. Going through the bag in great detail and I'm laughing and judging because the reason I'm selling the ticket is because I need the money. I'm kinda like hahhaha No. She's disappointed but understands. The other people at the party are kinda laughing but kind of ignoring the situation. I ask if everyone wants to do a tequila shot. Just like in real life, I decided that if no one bought the ticket, I would go. So I went home to change but when I was at home I fell asleep...when I woke up I felt bad that I hadn't given the ticket to Tess because I had missed the whole show...but that's not the point, the point was I was selling it. Then I speed downtown in a van. I speed directly inside a building that has an opening big enough for cars. The interior is red and black. I speed through this concrete room and it's actually a bar. I see one of the artists from the show coming out of the bathroom and behind her is a toilet and above the toilet a sign says "bad woman". I feel like I am frantically trying to make gay jokes with her as she is a lesbian... desperately trying to connect and impress. Then I move into the rest of the space and it is a large bar that stays open all night. Kind of like in real life, I show up and all of my friends had an experience together and I'm like "so how was it?!" ...I could call this fomo but it was maybe more of a feeling of not belonging. Everyone was in different states of drunk and asleep and I was like "oh wow, this place stays open that late...!" Blah blah blah. There were pool tables and the results of everyone drinking so much. Irl I have a hard time being around too much drinking... Something that surprised me that I'm trying to unpack was that one of my best friends was there (she is unconnected to this group) and she was like chummy chummy with everyone and had been partying with them all night. I was kind of miffed or surprised by this...almost like, these are not your friends, they're my friends etc. I thought about how to connect myself with these people and imagined offering rides home in my van, but I never did. I got the feeling that I would throw up and then I woke up. The end.