Arguing with W and then with people about marriage to W

Date: 12/8/2024

We’re at some sort of restaurant or something. I remember something else happened before this part of the dream but this is the part that I remember the most. Anyway, I am dressed up and I’m wearing heels and a long coat and I’m at a restaurant with family. Something happens and I’m extremely mad, and I request to speak with the staff in the back of the restaurant. I’m fuming and I speak to the staff and W is there. I’m just so beyond angry I go off. He’s cleared the owner or chef there and I’m just yelling on behalf of someone else. I just remember it being a screaming match and I leave the restaurant just done with the situation. Cut to another scene and someone I know is getting married. Some sort of marriage event is happening and everyone’s excited. I’m sitting in the middle of a room that looks like a large open plan living room that had couches but was open plan. Imagine harash’s house living room but it’s more open and wider. Anyway, the main girl I know is getting married and there’s some sort of even and I’m sitting farther away, and I look up and see W there. I’m like oh what the heck is this guy doing here? I just don’t go there and chat with the people around me. The event is coming to an end and the elders look at me and say, “alright, it’s your turn. You have that guy right there and let’s get this show on the road” somehow implying that I’m supposed to be marrying W. I immediate shoot up out of my seat and say “whoa whoa whoa, this is kind of putting the carriage in front of the horse. I have no intention of marrying that guy, or anyone for that matter. No no no, relax” and everyone looks at me like I’m crazy because they thought that the argument that I had was about this specifically. Essentially the thing that I’m crazy that I had a super big argument and blew up with this person, and the only reason that I could’ve possibly done that was because I wanted to marry this person. Which is just so stupid if I think about it, even in dreamland, I remember being absolutely Flabbergasted that they put those two incidences together and decided that I’d have to marry this person. And then I woke up and went back to bed and the dream continued. Something happened, it’s a bit fuzzy, but I remember that we are somehow in a chalet or ski lounge thing. And it’s a beautiful place in the forest with snow everywhere because it’s the middle of winter. Something happened and W was there and I decided I’d had enough so I opened the back door that went out to a lower deck and I basically said I was done and walked out. When I walked out, he followed me out and was saying something and I looked to my right where the stairs were to go down to the base level and there was a brown bear there. The crazy thing was that the brown bear was the least of my worries and it seemed like it had been kept as a pet more than anything. It stood up on its hind legs and started taking the stairs up to where we were and I slowly backed away. It came half way up the steps and then went back down. I decided I needed a walk and wanted to go away form the situation and people and decided to go down the steps and around the bend of the ski loge/chalet and the brown bear then decided it hated me and roared and decided to run after me. I panicked and started running and then I woke up.