Ex Has Weird Secret Obsession with Me

Date: 9/3/2021

I went to see my ex/person I had a trauma bond with, Jerry. We had gone hiking in the woods. Even though he lives in the northeast and it's September right now, it was freezing, there was ice and snow everywhere. We were heading back. "You still live in the same place?" I asked when recognizing the area around his house. I had thought he moved to another state this past January. "Yep," he answered as we pulled into his garage. It was not where he lived at all, but in the dream, this is where he lived as long as I'd known him. When we got inside, he went to take care of something, and there was another girl in the house, a blonde girl. She seemed friendly. Once I said my name, her face lit up with recognition. She said, "Oh, you're the one with the degree!" I seemed confused so she brought me into his living room and pointed at the wall where there was a huge collage of photos of me, they seemed to be printed out from my social media. There were screenshots of posts from my pages. I thought this was odd since Jerry hadn't talked to me since January and before that, he hadn't talked to me since June 2020. And I thought he really didn't like me. We hung out on the couch for a little bit, the three of us. The girl had to go back to college so she left. I attempted to catch up with Jerry and mentioned that I finally, actually made it into law school. He seemed excited about it. Then, Jerry's girlfriend Grace showed up. He barely paid attention to her. She seemed very distraught. I wondered how she felt knowing that Jerry had photos of me all over his house. I then thought about how he probably is one of those guys with the issue where once they have someone, they completely lose interest, and instead, they will be interested in someone that they can't have.