Kayak / boat.. who's in charge?

Date: 11/7/2016

I was on a kayak with my family. My brother was in charge of steering and kept sending us toward the rocks. We almost hit the rocks several times. My dad was mad at me for telling him to watch out. Then we got lost in some kind of rainforest with houses. It was an unknown feeling place. My brother was now mad at me because apparently when I told him to watch out for the rocks, I had somehow steered him off course and now we were lost because of me. There was more too it that I can't remember, but the feeling was about who was "in charge". I remember also falling off the back of the kayak and swimming behind it. And the kayak transitioned to a boat and back several times.