Jimothy

Date: 11/30/2024

I was with my ex Jimothy (not his real name obv, but he sux so he gets a stupid name), but we were in the situation my husband Al and I are in now (sex-less relationship). It was time for bed, so Jimothy and I got into our bed together, next to one another. I decided tonight that I wd rub his arm and leg a bit. After doing that for a bit, he asked if I thought we wd ever be intimate again (due to medication he's on, he isn't capable of, well, you know...).We sat up and got in a position for a serious talk. I said, "idk, maybe sex just isn't an option for you & I. We may never have sex again." He said some stuff, and I said something abt us maybe just being friends instead of staying in a relationship where there's no intimacy, no love, no passion, no happiness, no anything... I'd be fine without sex if we at least had love or respect or some sort of happiness. But there's just misery in our relationship. He said, "yeah right, you have to do everything God's way". And I replied, "well, why wdnt just being friends be God's way? Maybe we just aren't meant to be together.. He starts getting a bit irritated at this point, and says, "Well fine, if we're not meant to be together and we'll never have sex again, then maybe I shd just call up that transexual that advertises his "services" online and get together with him. Maybe he can get me up". Idk if he was trying to make me jealous or something, but a transexual prostitute (who looked like nothing more than a near-death skinny af crackhead with a madams apple and a bad curly black shoulder-length wig on whom desperately needed to visit a dentist ) was definitely not the way to go about it. I just shook my head in shame at him and walked away. As he said something else I turned to look at him just once more, while still shaking my head and then continued to walk away. I walked to an empty hallway (we were on a very large ship) and lay down against a wall, waiting for my best friend to get up. I was willing to sleep up against this wall and wait until morning for him. My best friend was one of the guys from some online comedy group (something abt college... there's a heavy girl named Grace, she's funny, and curly haired girl who's also really funny but I forgot her name... some blonde haired guys, and a short guy with black hair. The black haired guy was my best friend. Let's just call him David ). So David gets up to pee or something and sees me in the hallway. He invites me in. I tell him abt Jimothy. I tell him abt when we first met and Jimothy told me, "I'm not gay". After a few weeks though, I was like, "Umm, I think you might be gay". He said he wasn't. So I said, "well you're awfully effeminate then". And now he says he wants to hook up with a transexual?? Idk what David said abt any of it, but I knew that he was in love with me, so he was glad that I wanted to stay with him from now on and leave Jimothy. I knew ppl wd ask if David and I were together now. He isn't my type looks-wise, but he's nice, so.... There was also a part where I had gone into a little convenient store and had stolen a drink. Later on when I went back again, some random guy with longish blonde hair was yelling at me and following me around, saying he wasn't going to let me steal anything else. I managed to escape him for just a few minutes, and the owner of the store came up to me and offered me a block of cheese. I do love cheese, lol. That's when the blonde dude found me again. He starts yelling, telling the store owner to search me bc he knows I stole something. I actually wanted to be searched, bc when the block of cheese was taken out of my pocket blonde dude wd hv been like, "SEE?! I TOLD YOU!" But then store owner wd hv been like, "I gave that to her". But store owner refused to search me and just asked why blondie thought I stole. He said something absurd, like, "Bc the people who came from the skies all stole stuff and then they just evaporated into thin air." The store owner started laughing and I thought to myself, "thank goodness it was a crazy person who saw me stealing! No one will ever believe this guy!" And then store owner gave me a job. I knew I wdnt make much, but at least I cd contribute *something* to my friend for allowing me to stay with him.

AI generated interpretation This dream seems to reflect the inner conflicts and dissatisfaction you may be experiencing in your current relationship with your husband Al. The character of Jimothy, your ex, could represent unresolved issues or emotions related to past relationships that are resurfacing in your subconscious mind. The lack of intimacy and fulfillment in the relationship with Jimothy mirrors the current sexless state of your marriage with Al. The conversation between you and Jimothy about the possibility of never being intimate again suggests a fear of remaining in a relationship that lacks passion, happiness, and mutual fulfillment. The mention of Jimothy considering seeking intimacy elsewhere, even with a transgender person, could symbolize a fear of betrayal or inadequacy within the relationship. The presence of your best friend David in the dream could represent a desire for companionship and support during a difficult time. The fact that David is in love with you in the dream could symbolize a need for emotional connection and understanding that may be lacking in your current relationship. The scene in the convenience store where you steal a drink and later interact with the store owner and a stranger with long blonde hair could symbolize feelings of guilt, deception, and being judged by others in waking life. The offer of cheese from the store owner could represent a sense of comfort or indulgence in the midst of turmoil. Overall, this dream may reflect your inner conflicts, fears, and desires related to your current relationship dynamics. It could be a manifestation of your subconscious processing of emotions and thoughts about your marriage and past experiences with relationships. Consider exploring these themes further in waking life to gain insight into your feelings and possible actions to address any underlying issues.